Going into the new year, I thought I would have one word to guide me through the year, but I have now come into two words to be my light. The words are clarity and latibulate. I have to give Plantkween credit for the latter, because when I heard her say the word, it spoke directly to my soul. It is the word I had been looking for that encapsulates my desire in the coming year as a woman, a partner, a mother and everything in between.
I once heard someone say that so many mental health issues are rooted in lack of clarity. I have to say, I never thought about it that way. Then I looked into my own life to see how that has impacted me. I can say for sure that one of the things I have always prioritized is knowing where I stand, whether it be personally, professionally, relationally and in every other aspect of my life. There is nothing worse than being in limbo that will wreak havoc on your mind. I will continue to seek clarity in ways that enrich my life, and preserve my mental health and wellbeing.
The next word is truly a gem right here as I said before. It seems like I have been latibulating for about two decades based on the definition, which is “to hide or seek refuge, often as a way of protecting oneself from external threats or finding solace in a safe space.”
Latibulating is a priority for sanity and for peace. Seeking refuge in safe spaces is important for all of us to grow. We find rest and safety in calm spaces; we thrive in safe spaces. Because the way our society is hell bent on making sure we burn out in both ends is endless. With the year we have all had as a country, those of us who prioritize our wellbeing can continue to latibulate. Some may take your actions as ostracizing yourself, and to that, I say let them, because only you know what you need.
As I latibulate, I also recognize it as an element of preparation for what is to come. By preserving myself and my energy, I am able to create and respond to the call of my divine purpose. Being pulled from every direction can make a soul grow weary and lose the zeal for pursuing our passions. Latibulate for restoration and to refocus, and in the process, seek clarity. Now go forth into 2025 with purpose.
Have you chosen your word for the year?
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